Pride and Prejudice Party

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When the kids were little, their themed birthday parties were the highlight of my year.

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I had files and Pinterest boards going for each of them and would shop garage sales and clearance items year round, literals planning three years out (!).

Crazy? Maybe, but in my mind it was just super fun and my favorite creative outlet as a stay-at-home, homeschooling mama of three.

As it turns out the things I learned during those parties, translate quite well into Vacation Bible School decorations these days.

I am not nearly as invested in the kids’ birthday parties as I used to be since they have each passed the age of ten and have their own opinions on what they want.

They still have good ideas and we have a lot of fun as demonstrated by our

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But, you can imagine my delight when my youngest announced that this year’s birthday party should be a Pride and Prejudice theme!

We quickly decided on blue toile as our inspiration and found these beautiful invites on Etsy.

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Next, was the decision on the dress. I knew I didn’t want to sew one, but could handle needed alterations.

We splurged and ordered this pretty thing off Amazon.

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Decorations were simple, with Union Jack pendants on the ceiling. For the table, a book page runner down the center with blue taper candles of varying heights and a large bouquet of wildflowers.

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I pulled some vintage, patriotic decorations from my stash and set those up around the room, as well. I already had most of the decorations and only had to pay for the blue candles.

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For the food, I hit Costco for croissants (grilled ham and Swiss sandwiches), veggies, berries for fruit kabobs and a cheeseball to represent Mr. Collins. Ha!

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I grabbed a couple of pretty little desserts from the fancy food refrigerator section to take the place of a cake and poured lemon water for drinks.

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We used some old books, painted gold and all my blue transferware dishes for the food. I had some fun little blue birds from a garage sale and a tall lantern that I added in, as well.

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These sweet little cupcake toppers were the perfect touch to dress up the desserts.

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I am attaching a printable so you can make your own. Just print them on cardstock, cut out and tape to toothpicks. Voila!

Once the guests arrived and ate, they played a card game called Marrying Mr. Darcy for fun. The object of the game is to get proposed to and it’s pretty funny all the things that happen along the way.

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Whoever got “proposed” to got to pick out a “wedding gift” from a stash that I had created. I filled a basket with funny mugs, tank tops and shortbread cookies.

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I had originally found the mugs and tank tops on Etsy, but in an effort to conserve money, had the mugs made at Costco and printed out labels to add to some el cheapo tank tops I found on Amazon to create the Mr. Collins work out tops. You can use my designs for the mugs by clicking here.

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We ended the night with presents and watching the movie, of course.

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Some of girls had never heard of Jane Austen or Pride and Prejudice, so it was a really memorable way to introduce them to some classic British literature.

They stayed up way to late and I wore ear plugs to get through it, as you may know from past slumber party experience.

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In the morning, we served a simple breakfast of pancakes with whipping cream and berries and sent the ladies on their way.

I hope you enjoyed getting a peak into our special evening and get to throw your own Pride and Prejudice party in the near future.

Let me know in the comments which part was your favorite!!

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  1. Kelsey Bredow
    December 2, 2019 / 9:34 AM

    Absolutely charming! How special to be an invited guest!

    • Sarah | She Holds Dearly
      December 2, 2019 / 9:06 PM

      Thank you, Kelsey, you are so sweet!

  2. Angela
    December 2, 2019 / 5:28 PM

    This was absolutely stunning! I LOVED IT!!!! As always, you did an outstanding job. This year, because of you, I’m going to start making birthdays a big deal. We’ve never really celebrated other than they get to pick their own meal and gifts. I want to make more meaningful memories. Out of curiosity, what do you do with your living room furniture when you hold such events?

    • Sarah | She Holds Dearly
      December 2, 2019 / 9:07 PM

      Angela! You know this means so much to me. I just love that you are inspired to have more fun with your kids’ birthdays. Keep me posted on what you do. xoxo

  3. December 4, 2019 / 6:22 PM

    Sarah this is so beautiful! Stunning yet simple. My favorite of your parties. Are those spray painted vintage books (the gold)? So pretty and would be great Christmas decor too!!

    • Sarah | She Holds Dearly
      December 4, 2019 / 10:58 PM

      Thank you, Jamie, I love it when a party only needs a couple of really stunning touches to make it special. And, yes, those are spray painted books, they most of them them aren’t even vintage, just hard back.

  4. Tanya Hulbert
    December 4, 2019 / 9:41 PM

    Sarah, I can tell this party came together so lovely! I am so sad we weren’t able to be there but am thankful to have gotten to see the beautiful pics. Hope it was such a special day for her!

    • Sarah | She Holds Dearly
      December 4, 2019 / 11:01 PM

      Thank you, Tanya. It is so fun to put these posts together and have other appreciate them. Miss you!!

  5. July 23, 2020 / 11:46 PM

    Our son had a camp-out in our big backyard once for his birthday – we borrowed tents from friends at church and all his homeschooling buds came to spend the night. We also had a dad who came to the party as well and we said, the more, the merrier! We appreciated his help and he said, why should his boys have all the fun! smile! The son and hubs was into Indiana Jones at that time, so this was his great-adventure.

  6. Heidi
    July 28, 2021 / 10:13 PM

    This was so helpful as I prepare to plan a similar party! I love the high-neck white dress. Do you have a source?

    • Sarah | She Holds Dearly
      August 25, 2021 / 12:53 AM

      We bought the dress off Etsy, so that exact one is gone, but here are some similar ones:

      Good luck at your party! I hope it’s wonderful. 🙂

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